Toxic Stress Can Lead to Chronic Illness

By Dr. Lawson Wulsin  

COVID-19 taught most people that the line between tolerable and toxic stress – defined as persistent demands that lead to disease – varies widely. But some people will age faster and die younger from toxic stressors than others.

So how much stress is too much, and what can you do about it?

I’m a psychiatrist specializing in psychosomatic medicine, which is the study and treatment of people who have physical and mental illnesses. My research is focused on people who have psychological conditions and medical illnesses as well as those whose stress exacerbates their health issues.

I’ve spent my career studying mind-body questions and training physicians to treat mental illness in primary care settings. My forthcoming book is titled “Toxic Stress: How Stress is Killing Us and What We Can Do About It.”

A 2023 study of stress and aging over the life span – one of the first studies to confirm this piece of common wisdom – found that four measures of stress all speed up the pace of biological aging in midlife. It also found that persistent high stress ages people in a comparable way to the effects of smoking and low socioeconomic status, two well-established risk factors for accelerated aging.

Good Stress vs. Toxic Stress

Good stress – a demand or challenge you readily cope with – is good for your health. In fact, the rhythm of these daily challenges, including feeding yourself, cleaning up messes, communicating with one another and carrying out your job, helps to regulate your stress response system and keep you fit.

Toxic stress, on the other hand, wears down your stress response system in ways that have lasting effects, as psychiatrist and trauma expert Bessel van der Kolk explains in his bestselling book “The Body Keeps the Score.”

The earliest effects of toxic stress are often persistent symptoms such as headache, fatigue or abdominal pain that interfere with overall functioning. After months of initial symptoms, a full-blown illness with a life of its own – such as migraine headaches, asthma, diabetes or ulcerative colitis – may surface.

When we are healthy, our stress response systems are like an orchestra of organs that miraculously tune themselves and play in unison without our conscious effort – a process called self-regulation. But when we are sick, some parts of this orchestra struggle to regulate themselves, which causes a cascade of stress-related dysregulation that contributes to other conditions.

For instance, in the case of diabetes, the hormonal system struggles to regulate sugar. With obesity, the metabolic system has a difficult time regulating energy intake and consumption. With depression, the central nervous system develops an imbalance in its circuits and neurotransmitters that makes it difficult to regulate mood, thoughts and behaviors.

Though stress neuroscience in recent years has given researchers like me new ways to measure and understand stress, you may have noticed that in your doctor’s office, the management of stress isn’t typically part of your treatment plan.

Most doctors don’t assess the contribution of stress to a patient’s common chronic diseases such as diabetes, heart disease and obesity, partly because stress is complicated to measure and partly because it is difficult to treat. In general, doctors don’t treat what they can’t measure.

1 in 5 Americans Live with Toxic Stress

Stress neuroscience and epidemiology have also taught researchers recently that the chances of developing serious mental and physical illnesses in midlife rise dramatically when people are exposed to trauma or adverse events, especially during vulnerable periods such as childhood.

Over the past 40 years in the U.S., the alarming rise in rates of diabetes, obesity, depression, PTSD, suicide and addictions points to one contributing factor that these different illnesses share: toxic stress.

Toxic stress increases the risk for the onset, progression, complications or early death from these illnesses.

Because the definition of toxic stress varies from one person to another, it’s hard to know how many people struggle with it. One starting point is the fact that about 16% of adults report having been exposed to four or more adverse events in childhood. This is the threshold for higher risk for illnesses in adulthood.

Research dating back to before the COVID-19 pandemic also shows that about 19% of adults in the U.S. have four or more chronic illnesses. If you have even one chronic illness, you can imagine how stressful four must be.

And about 12% of the U.S. population lives in poverty, the epitome of a life in which demands exceed resources every day. For instance, if a person doesn’t know how they will get to work each day, or doesn’t have a way to fix a leaking water pipe or resolve a conflict with their partner, their stress response system can never rest. One or any combination of threats may keep them on high alert or shut them down in a way that prevents them from trying to cope at all.

Add to these overlapping groups all those who struggle with harassing relationships, homelessness, captivity, severe loneliness, living in high-crime neighborhoods or working in or around noise or air pollution. It seems conservative to estimate that about 20% of people in the U.S. live with the effects of toxic stress.

Recognizing and Managing Stress

The first step to managing stress is to recognize it and talk to your primary care clinician about it. The clinician may do an assessment involving a self-reported measure of stress.

The next step is treatment. Research shows that it is possible to retrain a dysregulated stress response system. This approach, called “lifestyle medicine,” focuses on improving health outcomes through changing high-risk health behaviors and adopting daily habits that help the stress response system self-regulate.

Adopting these lifestyle changes is not quick or easy, but it works.

The National Diabetes Prevention Program, the Ornish “UnDo” heart disease program and the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs PTSD program, for example, all achieve a slowing or reversal of stress-related chronic conditions through weekly support groups and guided daily practice over six to nine months. These programs help teach people how to practice personal regimens of stress management, diet and exercise in ways that build and sustain their new habits.

There is now strong evidence that it is possible to treat toxic stress in ways that improve health outcomes for people with stress-related conditions. The next steps include finding ways to expand the recognition of toxic stress and, for those affected, to expand access to these new and effective approaches to treatment.

Lawson R. Wulsin, MD, is a Professor of Psychiatry and Family Medicine at University of Cincinnati. He also practices psychiatry in primary care settings, specializing in psychosomatic medicine.

This article originally appeared in The Conversation and is republished with permission.

Are You Suffering from Toxic Stress?

By Ann Marie Gaudon, PNN Columnist

There is no such thing as life without stress. It’s both a physiological and psychological response to a real threat or a perceived one. Stress tends to resolve itself naturally and in a timely way as the situation resolves, but “toxic stress” is different.

Frequent chronic stress, in the absence of adequate support, has harmful and potentially lasting effects on a person’s physical and mental health. It can affect anyone at any age, and no one is immune.

You are at risk for toxic stress when the stress is persistent and severe. You may have multiple stress factors and the body will react to them. One reaction will be that the body’s fight-or-flight, faint-or-freeze response is activated too often or for too long. This results in the release of stress hormones, one of which is cortisol. Long-term heightened levels of cortisol can become dysfunctional, inducing widespread inflammation and pain.

There is a very real biological link between stress, anxiety and pain. Toxic stress makes you more at risk for many types of chronic illness and pain, a dampened immune system, infections, mental health issues, poor emotional regulation skills, and even substance abuse. You can become sick and stay sick.

Toxic stress will also make you more vulnerable to chronic anxiety, which can include panic attacks. You may become hypersensitive to threat and to pain severity. Your behaviour will also likely change, which can mean trouble for relationships. In short, toxic stress will invade every thread of the fabric of your life.

Types of Stress

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Stress Buffers

Toxic stress can’t always be avoided – the loss of a beloved one, a nasty divorce, conflict in the home, chronic depression, feelings of betrayal and other life changes are sometimes inevitable.

However, a relationship with an adult who is loving, responsive and stable can help to buffer against the effects of stress and stop it from turning toxic. Other buffers include high levels of social support, consistent nurturing, and confidence in your problem-solving skills are just a few in an umbrella of many.

There are strategies you can do on your own to help buffer yourself against the consequences of toxic stress. Crucially, it is important to focus on what you can control, not what you have no control over. Toxic stress may include factors that are actually beyond your control, leaving you more distressed and overwhelmed, so it’s very important to become aware of the differences.

Write a list of what you can and cannot control. Take the reins on what you are able to, even if it’s as routine as what you’ll eat for dinner each day. Spend your time and energy on things that can improve your situation and can get a handle on. Remember, when we rail against that which we cannot control, that is when our suffering soars.

Healthy Living

Focus on a healthy lifestyle. Toxic stress can easily slide into unhealthy habits such as smoking, too much alcohol, overeating, overworking and the like. You may get temporary relief from them, but in the long-term these poor coping mechanisms will serve to worsen your stress. Eat well, exercise, get outside into nature, and try as best you can to get good sleep while practicing sleep hygiene.

Some people have a tendency to isolate themselves when stressed, yet one of the most protective buffers against toxic stress is support from people who care about you. Never underestimate the power of touch, including deliberate and welcome hugs. Reach out, engage with others, and make plans with others who are close to you. You want to be with adults who are soothing, safe and secure for you.

Find a relaxation technique that helps you lower your stress level. I’m a little different than some, because vigorous exercise is my happy place. Heart-pumping, blood-flowing, rushes of endorphins take my physical pain down and make me feel relaxed.

Alternatively, you might benefit from stillness with mindfulness practice, journalling, yoga or Tai Chi, body scans or progressive muscle relaxation techniques. Find your happy place and go there as often as you are able.

A very wise colleague of mine told me that we need three things to be happy: someone to love, a purpose, and something to look forward to. Go ahead and set goals, and plan for the future.

Toxic stress can have the sufferer believing that things will never improve, which leads to hopelessness and despair. Making plans for the future will give you some direction and purpose, as well as something to look forward to. When a good experience happens, optimism can drop by for a visit to remind you that life won’t always be so challenging.

As always, if you’re really struggling, reach out to a trained professional. We all need help at times in our lives, and one of those times might be when you’re dealing with toxic stress.  Your professional therapist will support you and help you with tools and strategies so that you can in turn support yourself.

Ann Marie Gaudon is a registered social worker and psychotherapist in the Waterloo region of Ontario, Canada with a specialty in chronic pain management.  She has been a chronic pain patient for over 30 years and works part-time as her health allows. For more information about Ann Marie's counseling services, visit her website.