A New Therapy Can Help Relieve Painful Emotional Trauma

By Laurel Niep

If you’ve been to a therapist’s office in the past few years, there’s a good chance you’ve heard of eye movement desensitization and reprocessing, or EMDR, therapy.

Most commonly used for treating long-standing and acute traumas, EMDR is also being shown to help with some kinds of chronic pain.

A growing body of studies shows that EMDR can be used to effectively treat a variety of conditions, such as substance abuse, specific phobias and anxiety that occurs alongside symptoms stemming from a trauma. More studies are needed, but results so far are encouraging.

I’m a trauma therapist who was trained in EMDR in 2018. Since then, I have consistently used this approach with dozens of clients to work through trauma and deeply held negative core beliefs.

EMDR and Traditional Therapy

Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing was developed in 1987 by Dr. Francine Shapiro after she discovered that moving her eyes from her left foot to her right as she walked – in other words, tracking her feet with each step – resulted in lower levels of negative emotions connected with difficult memories, both from the more recent frustrations of the day and deeper events from her past.

Conventional treatments, such as cognitive behavioral therapy or dialectical behavioral therapy, rely on extensive verbal processing to address a client’s symptoms and struggles. Such therapy may take months or even years.

Depending on the trauma, EMDR can take months or years too – but generally, it resolves issues much more quickly and effectively. It is effective for both adults and children, and can be done remotely.

EMDR is an evidence-based therapy that can help people process trauma in ways that other forms of treatment cannot.

EMDR has the capacity to work faster by targeting negative thoughts and emotions in combination with what is called bilateral stimulation – that is, the use of eye movements, tapping, audio or tactile sensations to process the emotions.

The most common form of bilateral stimulation is when the patient holds their head steady and uses their eyes to follow the therapists’ finger movements back and forth. Patients may also wear headphones that alternate music from ear to ear, or a tone that goes back and forth. Another common technique is having the patient hold a small buzzer in each hand that alternates vibration back and forth. Sometimes, therapists alternate tapping on each of the client’s hands or knees.

Some practitioners equate it to adding conscious thought to what the brain is trying to do during rapid eye movement, or REM, sleep. During this stage of sleep, the eyes go back and forth under your closed eyelids as you’re dreaming.

How EMDR Works

Researchers are still working out exactly how and why EMDR is effective at helping patients heal from trauma.

Trauma is a physiological and psychological response to an event where one perceives a threat to their safety – or to someone close to them – that is so severe, it overwhelms their capacity to cope.

The traumatic event can give rise to various symptoms that affect daily life, such as anxiety, depression, mood swings, intrusive thoughts, hypervigilance, difficulty sleeping or changes in appetite or weight. Sometimes, the person has thoughts of self-harm or suicide.

The trauma can also leave one with various triggers – sights, smells, sounds, locations, phrases – that bring up memories of the event. This causes the person to relive the emotions or reactions they had when the trauma initially occurred, as if it’s happening again.

For example, on a stroll through a crowded mall, someone who had been assaulted months earlier might catch a whiff of the same cologne the perpetrator was wearing. As the smell of the cologne triggers them, they suddenly feel like they’re experiencing the assault again, including physical sensations and seeing images of the event.

Dislodging Trauma

Memories of traumatic events often become stuck in the brain’s limbic system, where the fight, flight and freeze response resides. This is not the place where memories are intended to be stored. Here, the memory is triggered by various experiences in daily life – a similar sound, smell, sight or sensation – that can make the client feel as if the trauma is happening again in that moment.

Targeting the traumatic memory while engaging in bilateral stimulation during EMDR allows the brain to highlight and move the memory from the limbic system – where it cannot effectively connect to other critical information or memory networks – to the prefrontal cortex and other cortical brain regions where the memory is better able to be processed and supported.

Certain places, disturbing noises or large crowds can trigger traumatic memories.

EMDR therapy is a multistep process. Together the patient and therapist first identify targets, meaning the specific traumatic memories to be addressed during the reprocessing phase.

Next, the patient is asked to associate the event with a negative thought about themselves linked to the trauma. For example, I might say, “And when you think about the worst part of that event, what is a negative thought you have about yourself?” Often something comes up along the lines of “I’m unlovable,” “I’m worthless” or “I’m not worth protecting.” The patient is also asked to identify and locate any physical sensations they might be having in the body.

Then the therapist will ask the client to focus on all three of those things – the specific trauma memory, the negative thought about themselves and where they feel it in their body – while applying some form of bilateral stimulation.

EMDR in Practice

Although trauma therapy is a very individualized experience, research shows that 80% to 90% of clients can process – meaning resolve – a singular traumatic event with only three sessions of this therapy. In one initial study study from 1998, past experiences such as post-traumatic stress disorder from combat were resolved in 77% of participants after 12 sessions. Other research suggests that for patients who have suffered chronic trauma or abuse, more treatment time is likely needed to resolve the symptoms stemming from the trauma they survived.

In this context, resolve means that the target thought or memory has been cleared and the impact should be greatly reduced – not that the person will no longer have any negative thoughts or emotions about it.

If a patient has multiple traumas, I’ll ask them to identify the memories that stand out the most. The therapist will start with the earliest of those memories and work toward present day. One memory at a time is focused on, and once it has been completely processed – there’s no more disturbance in the body when thinking of the memory – then the therapist and patient move on to the next one.

One of my patients had struggled with devastating childhood memories of verbal, emotional and physical abuse by their parents. This consistently affected their relationships with family and peers into adulthood. After working with EMDR, the patient was able to process the haunting memories, gain insight on setting boundaries with others, and provide comfort and guidance to the young child they once were.

Another patient was a high school student, afraid to leave the house after enduring an assault on the way home from school. Concrete, visible changes began after the second session. School attendance became more consistent; grades improved. “I don’t understand what’s happening,” said the patient. “It’s like magic. I’m not so scared anymore.”

But EMDR is not magic. It is a unique strategy that allows the client to approach the trauma in a different way. The client is able to think about the events they are affected by and engage with the support of the therapist without having to verbalize each detail of their trauma.

Finding EMDR Specialists

If you’re considering trying out eye movement desensitization and reprocessing therapy, find a therapist who is trained or certified for this treatment. The EMDR International Association website has a list of them, though there are many other qualified therapists not affiliated with that organization, and you could ask about a clinician’s credentials before beginning treatment with them.

If you’re struggling daily with past trauma or deeply held negative beliefs about yourself, are willing to delve into those difficult emotions and would like to try a different type of therapy backed by research, I would strongly recommend giving EMDR a chance.

Laurel Niep, LCSW, is a Trauma Therapist and Senior Instructor with the Stress, Trauma, Adversity Research, and Treatment (START) clinic in the Department of Psychiatry at the University of Colorado School of Medicine.

This article originally appeared in The Conversation and is republished with permission.

Checking the Boxes: Why Therapy Was Not Helpful

By Mia Maysack, PNN Columnist

Living with persistent pain or chronic illness is enough to push anyone to the brink of insanity. I’ve reached out for mental health assistance in the past, and either regretted it or didn’t feel it was much help at all.

I later came to the realization that therapy could only ever be what we make of it, so I decided to release the disappointment from the past and give it another wholehearted try.

I learned that the therapy process, particularly since COVID-19, is a nightmare. The isolation of the pandemic helped us recognize the importance of mental health, along with the fact that there’s a shortage of providers. It’s now nearly impossible to find a therapist.

It’s even more difficult to come across one that is accepting new patients and whatever insurance you might or might not have. I spent the better part of a year researching, making phone calls and being told no, before I finally came across a situation that seemed promising.

After providing extensive documentation exploring every aspect of my life and then playing the waiting game to get the green light from insurance, I was finally able to move forward with scheduling an appointment at a clinic. It would have been many more months before I could be seen in-person, so I settled for a virtual appointment.

I was happy to connect with a provider, who initially seemed warm and caring. Little did I realize how short lived this would be.

During our conversation, we covered the basics. I attempted to explain how anyone who lives the way that I do must experience some form of depression or sadness, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that I always feel that way. I don’t feel a need to label people as “sad” or “depressed,” for I believe there’s a wide spectrum we all exist on. We can allow ourselves to feel sad or anxious in any given moment, without necessarily committing to that experience permanently.

Prior to this therapy session, I’d been participating in a behavioral health program where a provider would call once every few weeks for a momentary check-in. Being that I had no other support at that time, I was thankful for the resource and couldn’t help but imagine what different points in my life would’ve been like had something like that been available then.

I’m under the impression this check-in option was cultivated during the pandemic in an attempt to alleviate the mental health stress that so many of us were having.  It’s more of a band-aid than anything else, but slowing the emotional bleeding can be the difference between life or death for many.

I remember having a pleasant conversation with someone who reached out. We chatted for about a half hour as they listened to some of my health-related goals, then advised me they’d have someone follow up to ensure the plan was proceeding smoothly.  

At the very last second, they requested I complete a survey -- one that I’d done countless times already: the PHQ-9 questionnaire.  It asks how you were feeling in the last two weeks and to rate your experiences on a numeric scale.  Was I tired? Feeling hopeless? Eating enough? Eating too much? Was I thinking of hurting myself?

Ending the phone call on such a note turned an otherwise enjoyable and productive conversation into a traumatic reminder of the ways I’d been struggling. Then the session was over and I was on my own again.

On the next call, I offered feedback -- mentioning the survey should come sooner in the conversation and empower the patient to choose when they’d complete it or even not take it. That should be my right and my choice.

I was advised that the survey was part of the process of getting a diagnosis. The therapist said this wasn’t so much the clinic’s way of doing things, but rather “served insurance purposes.” That rubbed me the wrong way.

Here I was, absolutely desperate for therapy, but instead of receiving actual help, I was reminded once again that the most important thing for a provider is to collect patient data. With a heavy heart, I chose to end my pursuit of counseling. It feels harmful and unsafe to be reminded that “checking the boxes” is prioritized over the quality of human life.

Mia Maysack lives with chronic migraine, cluster headache and fibromyalgia. She is a healthcare reform advocate and founder of Keepin’ Our Heads Up, a support network; Peace & Love, a life coaching practice; and Still We Rise, an organization that seeks to alleviate pain of all kinds.

Why Living for Others Keeps Me Going

By Mia Maysack, PNN Columnist

While I am “the strong one” that so many look up to and confide in about their hardships and struggles, there aren't many people that I can reach out to in hopes of receiving the same sort of consideration, counsel or support.

I once expressed to a certified professional that one of the main reasons I'm still in existence is for the sake of other people. They looked at me – perplexed -- and proceeded to explain how that was an “unhealthy” approach to life. My reaction was to smirk, because there was obviously no way in hell this individual could begin relating to, let alone understand, what I was saying.

The vast majority of my experiences with therapy have been that the provider and I may as well have been speaking different languages.

Repeatedly, I'm confronted by individuals who say things such as:

“It's my kids who keep me going!”

“I do it all for them! They are my reason for living! I didn't know love or the point of life until I had children!”

I honor all of that to the best of my ability, but also wonder. What’s the difference between that mindset and the point that I made with the therapist?  There isn't one -- other than the fact my motivation doesn't come from having children, but rather from the brokenness of our world as a whole.

What do I mean when I say I live for the sake of others?  It's that I'm equipped with such a deep sense of compassionate empathy that I am able to hold the edges for people who ordinarily do not feel heard or seen. This somehow cultivates the illusion that I'm superhuman, and don’t need to be seen or heard myself.

Just because some of us don't outwardly complain or vent doesn't mean we have it all together, that everything is easy, or that we ourselves aren't drowning in a sea of despair.

Most people wouldn't know how to handle it, if I shared with them the reality of what my life is truly like. They wouldn't know how to respond if I told them that just getting out of bed for me is like running a marathon. Or if I described the pain and torment in my physical body, which keeps me away from things that I want to do and bring me a sense of meaning, joy and purpose.

They certainly don't know how to handle it when the person they depend on reveals that they're beginning to crumble under the weight life has forced them to carry. Anytime that I've attempted to confide in someone, there are three things that occur:

1. They aren't listening to actually hear you, but are simply awaiting their turn to speak -- which usually involves some sort of comparison between your situations, with a hinted suggestion that their situation is far worse than yours.

2. You make them uncomfortable by expressing yourself authentically. They don't know what to do or say, which often translates into doing or saying not much of anything.

3. It causes them major concern and worry, to the point that I then have to reassure the people I sought comfort from that I’m okay.

It has become easier to remain silent. That is why we suffer. That is what’s killing us.

I have zero questions in my mind as to why someone makes the decision to die. That doesn’t mean condoning or promoting it. I simply comprehend the endless reasons why life can be so tiring and how a lifetime of exhaustion can get old -- to the point where someone no longer wishes to go onward.

I believe in everyone's ability to choose and proceed with what's best or right for them, whether I agree or understand it. I've lost countless loved ones and that has been sufficient reason for me not to check out. I can't do it because so-and-so did. I want to carry on so they continue to live through me.

Although I still feel that way most of the time, it needs to be understood how draining it is. Those of us who've managed to cling to an optimistic viewpoint aren't free from our own demons. We slay them daily for the sake of showing up for you and yours.

Mia Maysack lives with chronic migraine, cluster headache and fibromyalgia. She is the founder of Keepin’ Our Heads Up, a Facebook advocacy and support group, and Peace & Love, a wellness and life coaching practice for the chronically ill. 

My Therapist Told Me to Write This Column

By Crystal Lindell, PNN Columnist

My therapist said I should write a column about how to travel while sick and I would love to do that, but I haven’t figure it out yet.

I get through work trips by drowning myself in dry shampoo, sleeping on conference tables between meetings, eating coffee for every meal, and using pain medication that wears off too fast — all while getting super behind on emails. 

My therapist said I should write a column about how to manage your health while maintaining a full-time job. Who the hell knows how to do this?

I work at home, which is a great gig if you can get it, but most people can’t.

Actually, I do have a life tip: If you have to work while sick, work at home. That’s it. That’s all I’ve got.

I spend my work days in my pajamas under a soft red blanket on the couch. I take pain pills when I hit my 3 pm slump, and I tell my coworkers entirely too many details about my health, while also avoiding using scooters at conferences so that I can look cool. I call in sick too much and not enough. And I am always tired.

My therapist also said I should write a column about how to live with chronic pain. Yeah, okay. I’ll get right on that.

For now, my life tips include: Saying “yes” every single time your doctor offers you pain pills; throwing away every cute pair of heels you own because they just aren’t worth it; and using filters if you ever have to video chat someone.

Every day of my life is a struggle. Every flipping day. I tried working out recently and fractured my foot, and then I tore my rotator cuff by using crutches. Now my foot is still messed up, and I just limp around on it while rubbing my shoulder. Sexy.

I skip physical therapy appointments because they’re too expensive, I’m constantly crash dieting and then gaining the weight back, and I never wear my shoulder sling or my orthopedic boot.

I’m obviously great at this.

I spend all my money on co-pays, Taco Bell, and kratom. I have no long-term career plan that goes anything beyond, “Get disability — eventually.” And I literally go off my antidepressants every few weeks because I think I don’t need them because I’m feeling better. This is a lie. I need them.

I wish I was wise and cute and Pinterest worthy. I’m not. I’m barely Walmart trip worthy most days. I never get enough sleep, I cry entirely too much, and there is literally a dented space on the couch from where I spend all my time.

So if anyone has figured all this out, let me know. You should probably write a column about it.

Crystal Lindell is a journalist who lives in Illinois. She eats too much Taco Bell, drinks too much espresso, and spends too much time looking for the perfect pink lipstick. She has hypermobile Ehlers-Danlos syndrome.  Crystal writes about it on her blog, “The Only Certainty is Bad Grammar.”

The information in this column should not be considered as professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. It is for informational purposes only and represent the author’s opinions alone. It does not inherently express or reflect the views, opinions and/or positions of Pain News Network.

Wear, Tear & Care: The Curable App

By Jennifer Kilgore, PNN Columnist

Nobody wants to be told that pain is in their head. If you’ve been in an accident like I have or suffer from a debilitating condition, that translates to: “This pain is your fault. You’re just lazy. If you tried harder, you wouldn’t be in pain.”

Pain is in your head. Pain is a signal that says your body is in danger, and for many people that switch never turns off. It becomes chronic, endless, crippling and traumatizing. This leads to a sort of fossilization in which we are scared to move, because movement hurts. Our lives become smaller, but the pain becomes larger until it consumes the entire world.

When my pain therapist suggested I try EMDR therapy (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) for post-traumatic stress disorder, I resisted for two years. Why should I have to make a concerted effort to get rid of my pain and work through memories of crumpled metal and squealing tires? Why was it my responsibility to fix things when somebody else’s negligence was the cause of my injuries?

As always, it’s more complicated than that. My pain signals have coalesced over the past 15 years into a body-wide tangle of energy that never stops hurting. It spreads from my back up to my neck, down into my arms and legs, wrapping around my ribs. Pills are thrown into the void. Devices are worn. The pain remains.

I can’t even remember how I stumbled across the Curable app. I think it came up on a Facebook ad, though I do get many Google Alerts for this type of product. Either way, I now have it downloaded and pay for the annual subscription ($6.39 per month).

CLARA

The Curable app is like having a virtual therapist -- her name is Clara -- on my phone designed specifically for chronic pain. I can work through these memories in the comfort of my own home, on my own time.

As described in their FAQ: “Curable is an online pain psychology program. Modern research tells us that recurring pain is caused by multiple complex and interconnected factors. Treatments like drugs or chiropractic try to target some of the chemical or structural issues, but these issues are only part of the equation when it comes to recurring pain.”

Pain researchers have discovered that the way we act and think play a significant role in pain reduction. I’m not saying that people don’t have valid injuries -- I broke my back in four places and have two fusions in my neck -- but I know, deep down, that my level of pain does not make sense. There were structural abnormalities. Most of them were fixed.

What’s left?

The rest remains in my head, and I am quite curious to see what is actually pain and what part is catastrophizing, fear, anger and stress. Curable says that this cycle of pain can be “deprogrammed,” and the app trains patients to tease apart what is real pain and what is not.

The program is easy enough to use. It can be done entirely on a computer, tablet or phone, and it’s compatible with almost every device.

Clara, the virtual pain coach, interacts with you by a stream of text messages, and it honestly feels like I’m talking to a friend who just gets me. She sends information and leads you from one activity to another, offering resources, exercises and funny gifs to help you “reverse the cycle of pain going on in your brain.”

Each session is between five and 20 minutes, and lectures run about the same length. Some of them are difficult -- for instance, I’m resisting the “Identifying Your Stressors” exercise in which I have to free-write, simply because I don’t want to face that part of my brain. It’s hard. I don’t particularly like waging battle against a part of myself, no matter how unwelcome that part is.

Clara even noted that many users find the writing exercises difficult and avoid them in favor of the other activities, because who wants to commit to such a level of self-reflection?

The makers of the app know this, and they get how hard it is because all three of the founders suffered from chronic pain. That level of understanding makes all the difference.

Curable is designed for three weekly sessions, though any pace can be set. A survey of users showed that some reported a reduction to zero pain within three weeks of trying the app. Everyone’s pain experience is unique, however, and they acknowledge that “there is no correlation between the total number of exercises you complete… and when you will begin to experience relief.”

As they also note, “Racing through the program ‘to feel better faster’ will not work.” I’ve found that racing through is pretty much impossible, because facing all of these thoughts and memories is exhausting.

I’m very excited about this app. I think it will be a great complement to my EMDR therapy and can keep me on track when my therapist can’t. Clara even speaks to me in a way that only other pain patients do. She understands our language, and the relief from that is staggering.

You can try the Curable app for free here.

Jennifer Kain Kilgore is an attorney editor for both Enjuris.com and the Association of International Law Firm Networks. She has chronic back and neck pain after two car accidents.

You can read more about Jennifer on her blog, Wear, Tear, & Care.  

The information in this column should not be considered as professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. It is for informational purposes only and represents the author’s opinions alone. It does not inherently express or reflect the views, opinions and/or positions of Pain News Network.

The Difference Between Pain and Suffering

By Ann Marie Gaudon, Columnist

It’s very easy to increase your pain and suffering. That’s not a typo. Believe me, we do it all the time. 

In my field, we use the term “clean pain” to describe something that we don’t have any choice over. Clean pain is the biological pain that science just can’t seem to fix. My clean pain is a result of disease. Your clean pain may be a result of disease or injury, or perhaps a combination. In the context of chronic pain, clean pain is unavoidable.

Clean pain is influenced by many factors and culture is one of them. For example, some African women deliver their babies in total silence due to learned beliefs. Clean pain can also be influenced by context, such as athletes who feel no pain as they push through their training and competition. Only when it is over do they feel pain and get care.

Clean pain is influenced by anticipation and previous experience. For example, you tell yourself that it’s happened this way in the past, so it’s absolutely going to happen this way again. We catastrophize (“It’s going to be awful and I won’t be able to cope!”) or we ruminate and obsess over our pain thoughts.

Grieving over the past or imagining a catastrophic future are two long highways to hell for chronic pain patients. I’ve driven on both of them. It’s not a fun ride.

Clean pain is also influenced by emotional and cognitive factors such as fear, anxiety, anger, depression and distorted thinking (“I will die from this pain!”). 

Dirty Pain

Clean pain is unavoidable within the context of chronic pain. However, what psychotherapy sees as avoidable, and completely within our control, is a second layer of struggling that we add to our pain. This second layer is called “dirty pain.” 

This dirty pain accumulates when we focus our attention on the negative thoughts and feelings about the pain, as well as the stories we tell ourselves (“I cannot live my life until I am pain free!”), and the rules we make up about the pain (“I cannot exercise in any capacity at any time with this pain”).

Some of these beliefs have a bit of truth to them, while some are arbitrary with no evidence to support them. Yet we can come to buy into them hook, line and sinker. Let the suffering begin.

Just to be clear, we absolutely must try to help ourselves with medical treatment in an attempt to alleviate our clean pain. However, there comes a time when the pain will budge no more. When we’ve reached that limit, yet continually strive to control pain that is not controllable, our efforts then become maladaptive and we suffer even more.

This metaphorical “chasing your tail” is also added to the layers of dirty pain.

We are all allotted only so much time and energy. We have a choice: Spend this time and energy trying to change the unchangeable, or engage in activities and relationships that help give you a sense of purpose and well-being.  

The goal of therapy is to help pain patients increase their repertoire of behaviours, guided by what they see as important, their own goals, and what they value in their life. This is in direct opposition to a restricted, limited and socially isolated life where pain is lord and master. By helping people to change the way they experience their thoughts, feelings and pain sensations, there is an opportunity to drop the struggle with your pain and to connect to what really matters to you.

Therapy for chronic pain management is a tool, and a good one at that, especially within a multi-disciplinary setting where you also have access to a team of other professionals. Some people with mild pain do very well using just one or two tools. However, if you are moving toward severe pain, you will need to have a larger toolkit.

My own toolkit -- in alphabetical order -- contains diet, exercise, ice packs, lifestyle modifications (e.g. strategic scheduling of work), medications, psychotherapy, rest, and a support system of family members, friends, and colleagues.

Some tools help with my clean pain while others help with my dirty pain. They all work together so that I can disconnect from struggling and connect to what matters to me. It isn’t an easy thing to do – especially at first -- but it is doable, as countless others are doing it as well.

Ann Marie Gaudon is a registered social worker and psychotherapist in the Waterloo region of Ontario, Canada with a specialty in chronic pain management.  She has been a chronic pain patient for 33 years and works part-time as her health allows. For more information about Ann Marie's counseling services, visit her website.

The information in this column should not be considered as professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. It is for informational purposes only and represents the author’s opinions alone. It does not inherently express or reflect the views, opinions and/or positions of Pain News Network.

The Link Between Trauma and Chronic Pain

Ann Marie Gaudon, Columnist

It has long been accepted in my field that chronic pain is a frequent outcome of trauma. There is extensive evidence to suggest that people suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) report chronic pain with striking frequency regardless of the nature of the traumatic experience. You don’t need to have been diagnosed with PTSD to be negatively and chronically affected by trauma.

One strong and commonly referred to theoretical model explaining the connection between trauma and chronic pain is known as the Mutual Maintenance Model. A person may respond to reminders of trauma through stress response, which may include avoidant coping (trying to avoid your distress by zoning out with video games or drinking to numb yourself), fatigue and lethargy associated with depression, pain perception elevated by anxiety, and intrusive memories of the trauma itself.

These considerable mental demands limit one’s capacity to control or decrease their physical pain and have the opposite effect of exacerbating and maintaining pain. To put it simply, experiencing pain prompts memories of the trauma, and memories of the trauma prompt experiences of pain.

The end result is that a person is trapped in a vicious cycle whereby the symptoms of trauma and chronic pain interact to produce self-perpetuating psychological distress and physical pain.

A second model, called the Shared Vulnerability Model, suggests that the interaction of trauma, psychological vulnerability (anxiety, loss of control over thoughts and feelings), and a lowered physiological threshold for alarm reactions all influence negative emotional responses, resulting in the development of PTSD and the co-occurrence of chronic pain.

This chronic arousal of the nervous system may be responsible for the symptoms of both PTSD and chronic pain. There is research which suggests that chronic pain and PTSD are not necessarily distinct from each other, but rather connected and overlapping. The fact that sympathetic activity (the gas pedal to your distress) is increased, and parasympathetic activity (the brake pedal to your distress) is decreased, both in general and in response to trauma-related stimuli, is one of the most robust findings within the PTSD literature.

Disastrous events can strike any of us, at any time in life, and no one is immune. Some events are relational such as a school shooting or a rape, while others are natural disasters like earthquakes or floods. After any distressing or life-threatening event, psychological trauma may set in. One may go on to develop extreme anxiety, depression, anger, or PTSD and may have ongoing problems with sleep, physical pain and even relationships.

Healthy ways of coping include getting support, avoiding alcohol and drugs, seeing loved ones, exercising, enhancing sleep habits, and other methods of self-care. Certainly not everyone with chronic pain has experienced trauma and vice versa. However, there is extensive research to show that PTSD and chronic pain are intimately connected.

Seek an experienced trauma therapist if you feel you are not coping well. Trauma therapy is highly specialized, takes place in healing stages at your pace, and works to re-wire what’s become maladaptive in your brain by laying down new and healthier neural pathways. Click here to see a YouTube video that explains that process.

The work will be hard and challenging, but the good news is that many people heal from trauma and go on to live rich and rewarding lives. Some offer inspiration to others who have also endured life-altering negative experiences.

People become sick and pained, and people also heal. Suffering can skyrocket, and suffering can also take a nosedive. You do the work as if your life depended on it, because experience tells us it often does.

Ann Marie Gaudon is a registered social worker and psychotherapist in the Waterloo region of Ontario, Canada with a specialty in chronic pain management.  She has been a chronic pain patient for 33 years and works part-time as her health allows. For more information about Ann Marie's counseling services, visit her website.

The information in this column should not be considered as professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. It is for informational purposes only and represents the author’s opinions alone. It does not inherently express or reflect the views, opinions and/or positions of Pain News Network.

Wear, Tear & Care: Emotional Insight App

By J.W. Kain, Columnist

Biofeedback is probably the closest thing to having actual superpowers. To quote the Mayo Clinic, it’s “a technique you can use to learn to control your body’s functions, such as your heart rate” by using electrical sensors to "receive information (feedback) about your body (bio).”

In theory, this can help you learn to control things like muscle relaxation, which often helps to lessen pain.

What if you want to go deeper than that, though?

In my own experience as a chronic pain patient, I’ve come to realize that much of pain -- or rather, the compounding of pain -- is emotionally derived. It can be stress from work, an argument with a spouse, dreading a rent payment, or anything else that thrills against your nerves. How does one separate the emotional aspect of pain from the physical? How do you know when you’re being your own worst enemy?

You look inward.

Somehow my father stumbled across the Emotional Insight app and sent it my way. I was very curious, as it seemed comparable to biofeedback. But how did it work without wires and electrical sensors? The price tag surprised me -- $49.95 for the app -- and so I reached out to the makers of the program, Possibility Wave, to ask if I could take it for a test drive.

Soon enough I found myself Skypeing with the delightful Garnet Dupuis, one of the founders of Possibility Wave and the creator of the app. He hails from Canada but now lives in Thailand with his wife, and I could hear the sounds of the jungle when we spoke. Suffice it to say he is a cool guy.

When processing experiences, Mr. Dupuis said, “It’s helpful to say it to somebody. A person begins a process of self-reflection even just by talking into a mirror.”

When asked how this relates to the app, Dupuis told me that it does exactly what it says on the tin: It provides emotional insight. “Something about declaration” helps people come to terms with things, he says.

In other words, just talk it out.

Clients have reported as much progress and growth in two to three app sessions as they would achieve in one to two years of actual therapy. As Dupuis says, “these are like quick spiritual experiences.” He calls Emotional Insight a form of “neurofeedback,” which made more sense to me; when I played with the app, I found it had nothing to do with the body and everything to do with the mind. Even so, “it’s a little bit like exercise,” Dupuis said -- as in, the more you work at it, the more you can discover about yourself.

This app is all about sharing information. Technically speaking, improvements could be made; there is so much data that at times the app freezes, and talking out loud can be impractical. That is when I realized this app was not made to be used on a train while traveling somewhere or while standing in line at the bank. This is literally a pocket therapist, but the therapist is the user.

It surprised me constantly, like a shrewd psychic, but in reality I was only talking with myself. Not only does it make you type out a problem, but it makes you repeat it aloud. This irritated me until I realized that I was resisting saying it out loud, because somehow, saying it out loud is harder.

When you open the app, you have three choices in terms of sessions. I chose “Spontaneous Insight.” You are prompted to speak aloud and identify the issue you want to explore.

This is when it becomes stranger. The voice analysis program does not pick up words you say; rather, it picks up the tones in which they were said and matches it to certain emotional responses. So if I say, “I regret the loss of the person I used to be,” it brings back three “clues” regarding the emotions behind my speech: longing, gladness, uneasiness.

The app brought up the fact that I am a workaholic. Considering I have a full-time job and still do things on the side, I would say that’s accurate. It told me to compose an “I” sentence with one of those clues. Somehow I came up with: “I’m glad my pain is getting worse because I’m a workaholic.” What? I am in no way glad about having pain, but I also know that I will run and run and run like the Energizer Bunny until I die, because I refuse to let my pain dictate my life.

By insisting that I don’t need help and that I can function like other people, I am making myself worse. It will take an outside force to make me stop. I have to admit to myself that I am not like other people anymore. I can’t do everything that I used to do. I have to mourn that loss and begin again.

Then the app essentially asks: “What are you going to do about it?”

I was squirming now, uncomfortable with what I was saying. “I need to stop working so hard in order to deal with my pain.”

The app then plays Sonic Signatures and the Crystalline Strategy, which I honestly do not understand. They are coded sound signatures that represent certain remedies, and you are supposed to listen to them a few times each day in order to reinforce what you have learned. It sounds like a whole store full of wind chimes and the signals of a lost radio station. There is a YouTube video that explains these “sound drops” (like herbal tinctures for your ears, if you will).

“The app never tells you what to do,” Mr. Dupuis said to me in our Skype chat. “It guides you, but you have to declare it to yourself.” That being said, the app is as enlightening an experience as you make it. For me, it brought up several things I have been avoiding; it was a strange experience, because I like to think that I face my problems directly. However, I learned that this is very far from the truth. 

Mr. Dupuis was intrigued that I am a columnist for a pain-related publication and that I wanted to use the app in this way. “Everybody hurts in one way or another,” he said.

Pain can compound for a variety of reasons. This app is a way for people to face what is haunting them, whatever that ghost might be.

J. W. Kain is an attorney in the Greater Boston area who also works as a writer and editor in her spare time.  She has chronic back and neck pain after two car accidents.

You can read more about J.W. on her blog, Wear, Tear, & Care.  

The information in this column should not be considered as professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. It is for informational purposes only and represents the author’s opinions alone. It does not inherently express or reflect the views, opinions and/or positions of Pain News Network.